Recently there a Georgia teacher was released from her position, or she resigned more to the point, based on her Facebook status. From the many sites I read, it involved a teacher holding an alcoholic beverage and somewhere in the posting was the word “bitch” or a derivative of that.
This blog entry has no point in going on further in to the implications of what is wrong and what is right concerning the firing of a teacher. What is important is the protection of character in the “semi-private” sphere. Lets face it, what you do at home in front of 2-5 people is private, on the street corner next to a 60 story building is public…in front of 100 “friends” is semi-private. Everyone can be on Facebook but like it or not, others can peek. Blogging for science and technology in the classroom also entails protecting yourself, student and teacher alike, from those technologies as well.
Students have, hopefully, heard many times and half-tuned into the notices about putting yourself too much on line, but many adults have not. What adults understand is not to listen to scams and give out their social security and credit card numbers. Public and private have melded into a middle ground that never existed 15 years ago and has become more prevalent in the last 3-4 years with the influx social media programs. New rules have to be written and learned to be seen as a person and not a radical…which in this case is a 24 year old with a beer saying a curse word.
Many websites are now places to meet and like it or not, the web is a nearly permanent marketing place for a person (can you ever be truly positive that another website took down your pictures?). Here are some simple guide lines on what not to do on a social gathering site as a teacher (if not for others) :
1) Don’t Curse
I think cursing is silly, I mean the fact that there are a few unspeakable words out there that I am pretty sure that all of my Facebook friends have said and I don’t think less of them for it. Use #$%@#$ when needed to, we all get the idea of extreme frustration.
2) Don’t allude to too much imbibing
As a teacher of Juniors and Seniors in High School for the past 4 years, saying that you had a beer or two while having dinner means you are an adult and they think nothing of it. Anything more than that, some students might think that you are one of them… You should be able to identify with them, but not be one of them. Even if you shared two glasses of Balvenie 30 and some Vintage 1977 port (neither of them students can understand the complexity of) with a friend of 20 years, don’t write about it.
3) Don’t Lie
Why? Besides the obvious, if they found out they can throw it in your face, and so could the administration that might find the page as well (and if they find out, then everything you say is under suspicion)
4) Don’t get too personal
Don’t say anything you would not tell an adversary of yours. If you ever think that you are putting something down in writing that could affect you, don’t do it. While your best friend might argue with you about it, students might laugh about you behind your back and administrators might call you down and discuss conduct and propriety. I have seen people with over 1500 Facebook friends. That is a lot of people that have an opinion on your personal life and I am sure that all 1500 of those friends are not very close friends. Are you sure that the day might come that your “friend” is subpoenaed over a Facebook account will never arrive…I am not.
5) Never,Never Ever have students as friends
Way too many instances as to why this can go wrong. Keeping with the spirit of this blog, I do encourage teachers to create a SECOND Facebook account where they create a community of students and where the teacher’s manner is the same as in class. Additionally I would encourage notifying administrators as to this account and supplying them access to be sure that all instances from students and teachers are classroom appropriate and it will protect both in the mean time. But , if you have only one personal account, a student with access could have an undesirable person over their shoulder looking at your content. I am always amazed as to who knows who in the hallways of school and I have to assume that my favorite is best friends with my least favorite.
Social media outlets are like Napster in 1999, no one wrote the rules for this type of interaction yet. They are also like credit cards, excellent tools that can easily be abused to the point where they can affect your future. Remember: you control what is placed about you on the internet and you market yourself every time you post something. Would you ever wear to your job a t-shirt that stated all of your Facebook statuses? If you answered no, you might want to rethink your manner of posting.